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Metro NY Minute -- December  2008

 

 
News From the District
District Executive Andrea Lerner shares a timely message. In his book, The Impossible Will Take a Little While: A Citizen's Guide to Hope in a Time of Fear, Paul Loeb includes an essay titled "The Small Work in the Great Work" by the Rev. Victoria Safford, minister of White Bear UU Church, in Mahtomedi, Minnesota. Here's an excerpt:

Our mission is to plant ourselves at the gates of hope--not the prudent gates of Optimism, which are somewhat narrower; nor the stalwart, boring gates of Common Sense; nor the strident gates of Self-Righteousness, which creak on shrill and angry hinges (people cannot hear us there; they cannot pass through); nor the cheerful, flimsy garden gate of "Everything Is Gonna Be All Right." But a different, sometimes lonely place, of truth-telling about your own soul first of all and its condition, the place of resistance and defiance, from which you see the world both as it is and as it could be, as it will be; the place from which you glimpse not only struggle but joy in the struggle.

The Spring 2009 Chalice Lighters recipient will be the UU Legislative Ministry of New Jersey, which will use funds collected to hire part-time staff. The Fall 2008 Chalice Lighters recipient is the UU Congregation at Rock Tavern (NY). Funds collected will be used to help rebuild the congregation's facilities that were destroyed in a devastating fire on September 12, 2006. For a project description, click here Acrobat Reader Required. As of December 2, 2008 $9,278 has been collected. Read more Acrobat Reader Required from Bill Slezak, District Chalice Lighters Coordinator.
The District Anti-Racism and Diversity Committee is sponsoring an Anti-Racism in Worship workshop on January 31, 2009, at the First Unitarian Society of Plainfield (NJ). For more information, contact the Rev. Wendy Pantoja.
Mark Bernstein, Growth Consultant for the Joseph Priestley District, will support the Metro NY District's growth efforts through a cooperative arrangement among the Metro NY, Joseph Priestley, St. Lawrence, and Ohio-Meadville districts.
The Middle Atlantic Regional Large Church Conference is planned for March 6-7, 2009, at All Souls Church, Unitarian, in Washington DC. Join other lay leaders, clergy, and staff from the four-district region that comprises the Metro NY, Joseph Priestley, St. Lawrence, and Ohio Meadville districts. An outstanding keynote speaker, workshops, and connections between large and large-midsize congregations are part of what is planned. Additional details are forthcoming. Midsize III congregations (350+ members) aspiring to be Large (500+ members) are also welcome.
 
 
Worth Repeating

Are you interested in presenting a workshop at the 2009 District Annual Meeting? The Annual Meeting planners would like to hear from you. The 2009 District Annual Meeting will be held May 1-2, 2008. Workshops should fit the theme "Turn Outward in Faith," focusing on the fourth system -- the Serving System -- in the congregational systems model advanced by Larry Peers. To quote Larry: "Service to others is a powerful way for an individual to grow spiritually. The congregation is attentive to providing support and recognition for individuals to grow through serving others -- and using one’s gifts, talents, or passion in meaningful and powerful ways. This is tied with your community presence: What you do within your congregation and how you serve others in the broader community extends your presence beyond the walls of your congregation." Click here to enter your workshop proposal.


Presentation of the 2009 District Awards and 2009 District Scholarships will be a highlight of the 2009 District Annual Meeting. You are invited to submit a nomination for one or more of four awards, and to encourage youth to apply for a scholarship. The nomination and application deadline is March 1, 2009.
Showcase your congregation at General Assembly 2009 in Salt Lake City UT June 24-28, 2009! The District can sponsor up to two Congregation Showcase events and is now soliciting proposals. The deadline is December 15. Click here to submit a proposal.
Calling all young adults! Come to the Young Adults Winter Retreat and spend Presidents Day Weekend (February 13-16, 2009) in community with fellow District young adult UUs at Frost Valley YMCA Camp in Claryville NY! Stay three nights in a beautiful 40-person, environmentally friendly lodge with a wood-burning fireplace. Meet new friends, re-connect with old ones, and just relax in the Catskill mountains. Participate in arts and crafts, hiking, or snow tubing -- to name a few activities -- or take some time for personal reflection. Nightly worship lead by a District young adult religious professional and an open-mic night are also in store. Registration includes all meals and is $200 as of December 1 and $250 as of January 1, 2009. Registration ends February 1, 2009
More Good Stuff to Check Out!

Worship Service Providers available to District congregations

RE-Sources for religious education leaders

Job opportunities around the District

InterConnections for lay leaders

Action Campaigns of the UUA

UUA Monthly Mailing to all congregations

uuworld.org, UUA's online magazine

UU Service Committee news

Small Talk newsletter for small UU congregations

 
News From the UUA
In response to the passage of Proposition 8 in California, the UUA has filed a petition with the California Supreme Court asking the Court to invalidate Proposition 8. The UUA was joined in the petition by the UU Legislative Ministry of California and other religious leaders and faith organizations. Read more. The UUA has also produced a video that uses images gathered from UUs across North America who have advocated for marriage equality or been joined in equal marriage. The video also celebrates the role of UU clergy in officiating at these services. See the video.
Be sure your congregation files for certification by February 2 (8:00 p.m. ET). Visit http://dyn.uua.org/congregation/ to file for certification. The certification filing process is used to report congregations' official membership numbers, which determine the number of member delegates allowed at General Assembly and at the District Annual Meeting and which determine Fair Share contributions to the UUA and Full Share contributions to the District. Only certified congregations can send delegates to General Assembly and to the District Annual Meeting, and only certified congregations can vote on the draft Statement of Conscience on Peacemaking. The UU Congregation at Shelter Rock (Manhasset NY) and the UU Fellowship of Huntington (NY) are sponsoring on February 28, 2009, a Peacemaking Forum in preparation. See the story under News from Congregations.
Election of a new UUA president will take place at General Assembly next June. The Rev. Dr. Laurel Hallman and the Rev. Peter Morales are both candidates. Complete information about the candidates is available online, including a new transcript and video of a Candidates Forum recorded in Worcester MA on October 18. Participate in open discussion about the election by joining the UUA-sponsored election listserve.
Ethical Eating was selected by delegates at General Assembly 2008 to be the 2008-2010 Congregational Study/Action Issue. Resources are now available, including the Ethical Eating Study Guide. The guide provides a suggested “Menu Plan” that maps out nearly two years' worth of options for congregational programming. The format allows each congregation to tailor its study to its particular interests and needs. Stage two of the Guide will be released in December: a Worship Guide with sermon excerpts, readings, and hymn suggestions.

News From Congregations

The UU Congregation of Monmouth County (Lincroft NJ) ordained Rosemarie Newberry on November 2 as a UU minister. Rosemarie has been a member of the congregation since 1994 and will now serve as the congregation's first endorsed Community Minister. In her role as a Community Minister, Rosemarie will continue her work with developmentally disabled men and women at the New Lisbon Developmental Center. Community Ministers are qualified in ministries such as counseling, chaplaincy, social justice, or education in religious studies. Endorsement by a congregation includes a pledge of continuing relationship and affirmation that the work is recognized by the endorsing body as ministry.


 
Milestones and Transitions

Jef Gamblee will be ordained by the Community Unitarian Church at White Plains (NY) on January 25, 2009, at 4:00 p.m.


The Rev. Susan Karlson will be installed by the Unitarian Church of Staten Island (NY) on April 26, 2009, at 5:00 p.m.
The UU Legislative Ministry of New Jersey (UULMNJ) will hold its second annual meeting on February 7, 2009, in Montclair. This meeting will build upon a successful planning meeting held in November, at which the Rev. Alison Miller inspired and challenged participants to determine what they are called to do to bring UU principles to bear in the public policy arena. The annual meeting will include the election of UULMNJ's first board of directors and workshops to strategize on priority issues and develop a congregational core action model. The UULMNJ is grateful to be called for the Spring 2009 Chalice Lighters and is looking forward to visiting congregations throughout the District.

The Unitarian Church in Summit (NJ) is celebrating its centennial, which included a service with remembrances of the many important events that occurred at the church followed by a fun-filled block party. More importantly, congregational leaders have formed a Centennial Celebration Committee with the goal of raising $100,000 to be used to provide or enhance educational opportunities for underserved children and youth in America and throughout the world. For the holidays, the church is selling Centential Fund donation gift cards Acrobat Reader Required to support the fundraising effort.
Peggy Schlechter, Director of Religious Education at the UU Congregation of Central Nassau (Garden City NY), offers Sharing Our Gifts, a UU lesson for the home in a video format. Peggy describes a project parents can do at home to make gift-giving part of children's spiritual journey.
The UU Congregation of Danbury (CT) voted last May to join the New Sanctuary Movement, an interfaith coalition in support of immigrants. The congregation was the first church of any denomination in Connecticut to join New Sanctuary Movement. Danbury has become a lightning rod, both amongst restrictionists and pro-immigrant activists. The Social Action Committee of the congregation has been among the most prominent of the activists. Read more Acrobat Reader Required.
The UU Congregation at Shelter Rock (Manhasset NY) and the UU Fellowship of Huntington (NY) are sponsoring on February 28, 2009, a Peacemaking Forum in preparation for the vote on the draft Statement of Conscience on Peacemaking taking place at General Assembly next June. The Rev. Dr. Paul Rasor, Director of the Center for the Study of Religious Freedom at Virginia Wesleyan College and author of Prophetic Nonviolence: Toward a Unitarian Universalist Theology of War and Peace, will be the featured speaker. Opportunities for discussion and for developing peacemaking action plans will also be part of the program. Registration is not required but please RSVP for the lunch count to Elaine Corrao at 516-627-6560 ext 133.

The Unitarian Society, A UU Congregation (East Brunswick NJ) hosted the 33rd annual Community Thanksgiving Service on November 25. The congregation is in the process of renovating its sanctuary, and the new (comfortable) chairs and colorful linoleum floor were appreciated by the nearly 150 guests from the wider community who attended this interfaith service. People received a warm and inclusive Unitarian Universalist welcome!
The South Nassau UU Congregation (Freeport NY) hosted the Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 23, a memorial service commemorating all transgender people who have died this year due to hatred or discrimination based on their gender identity.

The UU Society in Stamford (CT) gained six new members on November 9, the largest number of new members in four years. For the second month, attendance at the Society's New to the Stamford UU workshops has exceeded expectations, and, on a recent Sunday, 86 people attended the service.

Other Noteworthy Items
Looking for a great gift idea? The Church of the Larger Fellowship (CLF) sells a wide variety of UU jewelry and note cards. Receive a 20% discount if you mention the Metro NY District by name! Visit http://clf.uua.org/catalog/. For a flyer to post, click here Acrobat Reader Required. Also visit the UUA Bookstore's Holiday Gift Guide. When you've made your choices, visit the UUA Bookstore by clicking here, and get a 10% discount on all UUA Bookstore books. The discount is applied at checkout. Look for the code nl1108; if you don't see it, call Rose Hanig at 800-215-9076.
Need a B&B for the Obama Inauguration? Members of the UU Church of Arlington in Virginia are opening their homes to fellow UUs from January 16 to January 22 for lodging during President-elect Obama's inauguration. Accommodations range from sleeping on the sofa to a private room and bath, with prices accordingly. All homes are conveniently located in the DC metro area (mainly Arlington VA, Alexandria VA, Fairfax VA) and accessible to the subway system. This is a fundraiser; all proceeds benefit the church. To request a reservation, please visit www.uucava.org and click on "UUCA Hosts4Change".
The UU Service Committee (UUSC) is sponsoring a Human Rights Youth Photo Contest open to youth aged 12 to 18. Submission deadline is April 30, 2009. For more information and flyer to post, click here. The UUSC is also sponsoring a Bright Light Challenge for Religious Educators: Creating Teaching Moments with Human Rights. Religious educators can submit ideas for fun, creative, and interactive ways for communities to celebrate the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and its connections to UUSC's work. For more information, click here.

The International Convocation of UU Women, the first-ever international gathering of UU women scheduled for February 26-March 1, 2009 in Houston TX, has registered over 400 persons! Countries represented include the United States, England, Romania, India, Uganda, Kenya, Japan, and the Philippines. Visit www.icuuw.com to read bios of inspiring international speakers, join the online community, and register to attend and/or register for an exhibit table. When four people from the same congregation register, each will receive a $25 rebate at the Convocation. The first 200 UU ministers and seminary students to register will receive a $50 rebate. Youth and young women ages 14-35 can register for just $299. Reservations for exhibit tables start at just $150.

TUUL-Belt Ministry, a volunteer organization supported administratively by the District and managed by the Rev. Scott Sammler-Michael, previously a Ministerial Intern at the Unitarian Society of Ridgewood (NJ), is one of the organizations featured in a New York Times article describing how 60 tons of high-end tile were delivered to New Orleans to help residents rebuild homes destroyed by Hurricane Katrina. Read the article.

The Murray Grove Retreat and Conference Center announces new programs for 2009, including a UU New Years with the Rev. Craig Hirshberg; A Woman's Retreat: Honoring Your Path as a Woman, led by Margaret Moro; Self-Care: The Language of the Soul Acrobat Reader Required, with the Rev. Nate Walker; Community Drum and Dance Retreat; and Homecoming Weekend.

Upcoming Workshops and Meetings
Visit the District's Calendar and Events page for these and other events:
 
bullet Rock N Run: December 26-28, First Unitarian Society of Westchester, Hastings-on-Hudson NY. For a flyer, click here Acrobat Reader Required. To register, click here. To register as an advisor, click here. For more information, contact Corinne Hallander.
bullet UU Ministers Association District Chapter Post-Holiday Party, January 4, 2009, location in Manhattan to be announced. For more information, contact the Rev. Tony Johnson.
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Anti-Racism and Social Action Con: January 16-18, 2009, First Unitarian Society of Plainfield (NJ). For more information contact Corinne Hallander..
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Jubilee 2: January 16, January 17, January 18, 2009, sponsored by and held at the First Unitarian Congregational Society in Brooklyn (NY). For more information, contact Michael Richardson.
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Anti-Racism in Worship workshop: January 31, 2009, First Unitarian Society of Plainfield (NJ), sponsored by the District Anti-Racism and Diversity Committee. For more information, contact the Rev. Wendy Pantoja.
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7th National Midsize Congregations Conference: February 6-8, 2009, Hilton Houston Post Oak Lodge, Houston TX.
bullet Young Adults Winter Retreat: February 13-16, 2009, Frost Valley, Claryville NY. To register, click here. For more information, contact Ryan Novosielski.
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Youth Con: February 20-22, 2009, Unitarian Society of Ridgewood (NJ). For more information, contact Corinne Hallander.
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Peacemaking: Preparing for GA 2009: February 28, UU Congregation at Shelter Rock, Manhasset NY, sponsored by the UU Congregation at Shelter Rock and the UU Fellowship of Huntington (NY). 
bullet Middle Atlantic Large Church Conference: March 6-7, All Souls, Unitarian, Washington DC. For more information, contact Andrea Lerner.
bullet Youth Con: March 6-8, Unitarian Church of Summit (NJ). For more information, contact Corinne Hallander.
 

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